Not Cool Robert Frost
If you have not seen the Kid President video on YouTube you should. It has been played in our house through Apple TV no less than 12 times, with the funniest being watching my 86 year old father viewing it with his grandchildren saying “Isn’t this great Grandpa!” It might not connect with all generations, but he was gracious. 🙂
There is a part in the video where Robert Frost’s famous poem, The Road Not Taken, is referenced and the kid president talks about how hard that road is with all the rocks, thorns, etc. . . He then delivers the line – “Not cool Robert Frost”. That line resonated and has been often repeated by my teenage daughter. In the last two weeks, almost daily I have found situations where I repeat it.
Not cool Robert Frost
I love transitions. People. Teams. Companies. There is much to be gained in a great transition, and there is lots at stake because it is not an easy road. Even in a successful transition there will be moments of failure. My experience tells me that there are four key things that have to be there for a successful transition (whether it is corporate or individual):
- Desire to make the change
- Community of support for individuals doing the change (including at least 2 people willing to provide one on one support)
- Willingness and ability to learn, unlearn, and relearn (thanks for those words Greg Hartle) as part of the process.
- Resilience to do the work, regardless of the conditions (this is leadership)
As I look at this list, I see number 2 and 3 as the things anyone can be working on today regardless of their situation. In fact, if you are not doing the work of making those a part of your work life, you are guaranteeing yourself / team / organization a difficult journey.
A story. I was talking to someone who had successfully transitioned to a new role, only to have it go away months later. The one thing they stopped doing when they landed? Building/maintaining their community (#2). Networking and maintaining your community is easy to stop when we are ‘busy’. But it is the road that will become overgrown if not used at least a little. It is also the piece that takes time to rebuild. We create more rocks and thorns for ourselves when we stop doing all of the work of preparing ourselves, our teams, or our organizations for the transitions that will occur.
It is okay to rest, but don’t stop doing the work of preparation. And when you hit a rock or a thorn, just blame Robert Frost and keep moving. 🙂